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My Reflection Matters Village

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Winter Craft & Bake Sale

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Family Workshop Series on Racial & Ethnic Identity Development


Do you know or are a parent raising Black or Brown children and are not sure how to best support your kids in developing healthy racial and ethnic identities? If so, I’m super excited to share with you this ground-breaking 4 day series I’ve recently revamped that aims to heal families of color from the harms of racism and discrimination and provide them with tools and strategies they can take to raise liberated youth.  Continue reading “Family Workshop Series on Racial & Ethnic Identity Development”

MRM Announces New Art Classes

My Reflection Matters (MRM), LLC offers learning experiences for home or unschoolers that intentionally center the cultural attributes, traditions, and histories of Black and Brown communities. Classes are taught primarily by teachers of color in order to promote our mission in offering opportunities for youth to see themselves in positions of leadership. Continue reading “MRM Announces New Art Classes”

MRM Art Gallery

JOIN US for light refreshments as we come together to celebrate the beautiful creations of our homeschooling students who participated in our 6 week My Reflection Matters in Art Series!  Our showcase will include a combination of 50+ paintings and spoon carvings created by children ages 4-18.  Come see the different Black & Brown artists our children learned about and hear from them how they transformed a piece of split wood into a spoon! Continue reading “MRM Art Gallery”

Can Cultural Pageants Serve as Tools to Support Racial & Ethnic Identity Development or Do More Harm Than Good?

So, I’m not a big fan of pageants–beauty pageants in particular.  In fact, I was coerced by my theater teacher and some other folks to participate in one during my high school years for scholarship purposes, which I begrudgingly went along.  It was a local Miss town pageant that claimed, like many other beauty pageants, that it was more than a beauty pageant.  The truth is when the majority of your pageant’s segments focus on judging the outer appearances of contestants, in my book, it’s a beauty pageant.  And we all know what standard of beauty is being utilized to measure everyone up against in those spaces!

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Run Toward Fear: Millennial Activism & Social Justice in the Trump Era

The Division of Institutional Equity & Inclusion at Connecticut College is hosting a Town Hall discussion open FREE to the public.  This is a great civic opportunity for educators and parents to attend with their older kids. See flyer for details.

Decolonizing Education Conference

My former colleagues at NYU are hosting a fabulous conference that anyone who is in the business of raising liberated young minds must attend! If you are a teacher or home educator (like myself) who has taken the first step of disrupting oppressive practices that have been passed down to you but still struggle figuring out what new actions you can take in replace of old habits, then this conference is for you. In order to provide a decolonized education for our children, we must decolonize our minds first!

Want to know how students imagine what decolonizing education looks like?  Don’t forget to check out the creative artwork that will be on display at the Decolonizing Ed. Conference by New York City high schoolers.

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Racial Identity-Affirming Resources: April 2016


What’s New This Month?

Thanks for tuning into our second newsletter this year!  March was a month of growth for My Reflection Matters (MRM). We now have over 1,100 followers and lead our first successful contest where we gave away a $50 gift bundle to one of our fans, Taisha Lee Rivera-Franklin.   The contest prize included a children’s book that speaks to social justice, conscious t-shirt by BAMN, Bino and Fino DVD on African culture, and the latest Indy Kids social justice newspaper written for kids by kids (See picture below.).  Keep reading to learn more details about each product and where you can purchase them.


MRM Facebook followers that posted a comment stating what they liked about MRM were automatically entered into our drawing. In addition to Dr. Noguera’s testimonial pictured upon opening this newsletter, here are some other comments followers posted on our page:


MRM will continue running monthly contests, so stay connected with us on Facebook to learn when we post them and what free gift we will be offering. Our primary purpose for running contests is to:

  • Learn more about what types of racial identity-affirming resources you like or struggle to find.
  • Provide lucky winners an opportunity to try new products and share their feedback.
  • Keep you coming back, of course!

Finally, we now offer you the option to sign up to receive email updates regarding our monthly newsletter, upcoming contests, and any other information we think you may find useful. Adding your name to our email list guarantees you will never miss a newsletter or contest announcement, so be sure to sign-up here!

This month’s newsletter is organized into the following headings:

  • Literature (young and mature readers)
  • Animation
  • Curricula Materials
  • Inspiring Schools
  • Toys/Games
  • Apparel
  • Upcoming Events
  • Take Social Action
  • Articles You Loved

Happy Reading,

Chemay                                                                                                                 Founder of My Reflection Matters  


Young Readers


!IndyKids: A free paper for free kids! is a newspaper whose purpose is “to engage young people to become informed world citizens through the production of a current events and social justice news source that is created by kids, for kids.”



Ta-Nehisi Coates has a new comic book, Black Panther, that just came out! We love him and his unforgettable book, Between the World and Me!



This month, while at the New York Collective of Radical Educators (NYCoRE), I met Tim Sheard founder of Hard Ball Press, a publishing company dedicated to helping working class people write and publish their stories. Of course, I couldn’t help buying these two gems from Tim.  My two and four year-old love Manny and the Mango Tree, not to mention it has helped us explore big concepts such as undocumented status, protesting, social justice, and activism.  



It’s Ramadan, Curious George offers an opportunity for teachers and parents to initiate a conversation about the customs and traditions associated with Ramadan as well as dispel wrongly held beliefs about the Islamic faith.



Some of my sons’ favorites are on this booklist of 12 Black Heros to read with your children.  Click here to learn more about each story listed above and where to purchase them.


Mature Readers


Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome lays the foundation of understanding how chattel slavery and the oppressive decades that followed has influenced the present.



Just Mercy is one of my personal faves this year.  Warning: get the tissues ready as Bryan Stevenson shares, in detail, his experiences working with Black and Brown youth and adults in what my colleague refers to as the criminal processing system (a.k.a. criminal justice system) in his search to prove their innocence in wrongfully accused crimes or lesson harsh treatments.



Many of the identity struggles Rachel, the bi-racial main character in The Girl Who Fell From the Sky, faced were ones I could relate with growing up in a community that saw you as either Black or White. I think your teen will enjoy this ‪#‎MRMbookfave‬!




Here’s a new animation to keep an eye out soon–Bilal. “The movie tells the story of a real superhero, an African slave who was brought to Arabia 1,000 years ago and fought for his freedom.”



Grab your little one(s) and take a peek at Orisha’s Journey, an animation based on African folklore.



Tell Me Who I Am is an animated series in which children learn history and science by actually becoming the historical role models they learn about.



For many of us who took a second language in school, Spanish classes never touched on the many indigenous languages that existed in Spanish speaking countries and how these languages have been forgotten by many after the Spanish conquest. Take a peek at these clips you can use in your home or classroom instruction.



Bino and Fino is a great educational cartoon if you are looking for an animation that is centered around Blackness and offers kids fun facts about different African countries.

Curricula Materials


Looking for a website that generates creative, engaging lessons that are relevant to youth today? NuSkool is an entertainment learning platform that finds teachable moments in popular culture. You’ve got to check them out!



If you haven’t discovered Lee & Low Books, you are missing out! They are the biggest multicultural children’s book publisher in the U.S. offering a diverse selection of books you may not always be able to find in you ordinary book store.  This is a great resource for homeschoolers or teachers searching for literature students can relate with to integrate into their lessons. 


Given the recent trip Obama has taken to Cuba, here is a resource from the Zinn Education Project for you to use with youth to explore the history of U.S. relations with Cuba.


Inspiring Schools

Sometimes we need a little inspiration to give us ideas and get us moving. Get inspired, here , with these two amazing schools!


Roses in Concrete Community School will inspire educators on what is possible when it comes to teaching urban students and provide parents with hope that places do and can exist where their Black and Brown babies are at the center of learning.


Little Sun People is a community childcare center whose mission is to educate children in their most formative years about the history and culture of all people of color with a particular emphasis on people of African ancestry.




I Never Forget A Face is an award winning, memory/matching game for young kids that includes children from all over the world. What I like about this is that Black and Brown faces are not “add-ons” or placed in the background of this game like in most toys.



If you are exhausted searching for dolls that reflect the beauty of your brown-skinned child, search no more! Read here about 7 companies that sell Black dolls and where you can get them.



My Family Builders is a great toy for young children! The box includes cards with pictures of different families–same sex, inter-racial, and single parent families–that serves as a tool to help adults engage in conversations about the beauty in different families.




My kids and I cannot get enough of BAMN (By Any Means Necessary) conscious t-shirts! We gave one away to our lucky March contest winner and plan to give more out again in the near future, so stay connected with us to learn more.

Upcoming Events

If you are near the NYC or Boston area…or somewhere in between, check out these upcoming events you may be interested in attending.


The NYU Metro Center for Research on Equity and the Transformation of Schools will be hosting their annual Summer Institute for educators titled, Unleashing the Power of Culturally Responsive Education in the 21st Century:Empowering students, families and educators on May 20, 2016.  Don’t miss an opportunity to see the inspiring Dr. Gloria Ladson-Billings and Dr. Jeff Duncan-Andrade speak!



Border Crossers offers insightful, ongoing trainings for educators and parents on how to have conversations about race with youth of all ages.  Sign up for their upcoming May workshop titled,  Talking About Race in the Classroom: A Training for K-12 Educators Committed to Racial Justice.



In case you missed Christopher Emdin this past March in NYC, he will be giving a book talk about his just-published For White Folks Who Teach in the Hood…And the Rest of Y’all Too: Reality Pedagogy and Urban Educationon Saturday, June 11, 2016 from 1:00-3:00 p.m. at the Cambridge Public Library in Cambridge, MA. Click here to learn more.


Take Social Action

Searching for an important cause you and you children can take social action on today?  See if any of the following campaigns speak to you or your kids/students.


Take action today and support ‪#‎stepupscholastic‬ a campaign pushing Scholastic to publish more books that mirror and affirm the identities of children that are often left out of the dominant narrative in children’s literature. Click here to learn more about getting involved.



What’s Your Issue is a national youth survey made with LGBTQ & GNC youth to lift up their experiences, priorities & dreams. Their goal is to represent youth who are usually left out. Help them by taking their survey & sharing it with your friends! Learn more here about hosting a survey party at your home or organization.


Articles You Loved

Catch up on some of our top Facebook articles shared in March for tips on education to advice on talking race with young kids!

What Exactly is a Good School? California is Trying to Find Out.

New Research Shows Connection Between Race And Early Childhood School Suspensions

Please Don’t Touch My Black Child’s Hair To Satisfy Your Curiosity

How (and why) I Introduced Gender Identity to My 3-Year-Old Son

Book Club Helps Immigrant Mothers Find Joy in Reading and Support Their Kids’ Education

How to Talk to Kids About the New Normal

Black and Homeschooled

Disclaimer: MRM does not get paid by any companies mentioned in this newsletter. This is purely lead by the personal research and interests of MRM.  If you have a resource or product you sell or are trying to market that supports the development of healthy racial identities of Black and Brown youth K-12, please email us at and tell us about it. We’d be happy to test, read, and share your resource if it meets our criteria for meeting the needs of our target audience.